April 15, 2011
Begin with the Prayer of Abandonment. Sometimes surprises can be fun. A little variety — the spontaneous outing or present, the out-of-the-blue card or letter, the date night that he planned and arranged for the babysitter all by himself. Other surprises are much less so. Today, for example, we think of tax returns and their orderly rows of numbers, and our fervent hope that not to receive a criptic response from the IRS, who tend to frown on unexpected deviations and variations. Or, take an example from my college years: on Mondays, the lunch menu always featured a single descriptor: “variety.” This was code for a surplus of a particular dish that had moved […]