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August 16, 2008There is nothing quite like the deaths of two friends — both of whom were just my age, one of whom left behind a five-year-old son — within a single month to make a person take stock. The early Christians had an expression: Memento Mori (remember death). This was not a morbid preoccupation with the Grim Reaper, but a mindset that helped the Christian to evaluate all of life with an eye on that which is of ultimate value: Family. Relationships. God. Heaven.
I looked back and realized … sure enough … I’d completely forgotten to actually write about this personal epiphany. Go figure. So here goes…
There is nothing quite like the deaths of two friends — both of whom were just my age, one of whom left behind a five-year-old son — within a single month to make a person take stock. The early Christians had an expression: Memento Mori (remember death). This was not a morbid preoccupation with the Grim Reaper, but a mindset that helped the Christian to evaluate all of life with an eye on that which is of ultimate value: Family. Relationships. God. Heaven.
Twenty or forty or sixty years from now, what will people remember about me?
* The books will have been long out of print, the magazines reduced to landfill.
* Our possessions will have been sold off, divided up, or simply worn out.
* The hours of cleaning and cooking and washing and organizing (surely after decades of homemaking, this time will have added up to hours, minutes at a time) … all slip by, unnoticed.
* But the people who knew me well — my children and my husband, other family and close friends. The ones whose birthdays have been passing without a card, while I rush to correspond with this or that church group. They are the ones who will remember …
They will remember me either as someone who cared enough to invest in them, or as someone who just went through the motions on her way to “more important” things.
So … in honor of my friends, I choose to make better choices. Take care of myself. Take care of my children. Take care of the things that will matter — 20 or 40 or 60 years from now.
Memento Mori.
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Here here! Well said! And Amen. I’ll ponder this and ask myself the same questions.
What an awesome reminder to focus on what’s REALLY important. I need to do that myself. Thanks for sharing.
Beautiful and just what I needed to read…God Bless,Kate